It has been proven by the scientific community that love is self-hypnosis and that no one can "make" us fall in love with them and that in fact we do it ourselves!
And by accepting this assumption we have to accept that love is not something that will happen once in a life, since we will never lose the ability to "self-hypnotize" ourselves. In reality we are always able to do it again and again. So basically if we meet enough girls, there will be a higher chance that we will like one of them so much that we will fall in love again.
Of course falling in love is not a matter of conscious decision, but is in fact a product of a vast variety of emotions that we feel over a certain span of time and over-thinking connected to that girl. One way of describing it is to use the word obsession because love is in fact a form of healthy obsession that we can experience.
Now one way to prevent love is to go on very rare and emotionally dull dates with a girl. So turn this rule around and you will have a plan to make you fall in love with her, and to make her fall in love with you. The greater the variety of emotions the better!
And remember, the opposite of attraction is apathy, not anger. And caring about someone is the opposite of apathy. Now mix the emotions of attraction and caring and you have love.
I wish you the best luck on your pursuit for love.
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